hallc.... So now I've checked you out and see you live in Raleigh! I used to live in Chapel Hill, not too far from you. I played quite a bit at University of NC Finley Course, The Challenge in Graham, Mill Creek, and then a lot at Hope Valley Country Club. I miss it there, and you are quite lucky... And you play Wakefield I see, very nice as well.
But what is this Florida Gators stuff I see? You live in NC and favor a team from Florida? And the SEC no less. That is heartbreaking for sure. You must seek proper guidance now and correct this immediately.
Now that I know you are in NC, here are 2 other choices..... Pinehurst is close and has a great deal of things your family could do as you and Dad play golf. You should also consider The Greenbrier Resort in West Virginia for the same reason. There are some great historical opportunities up there as well as great golf. Good luck!