First, I do not think I've properly welcomed you to the forums. I hope you enjoy the interactions here.
Your question is good. I use the Champs Stinger model, which is what Eagle mentions. I wear Icons, and so I have found the Stinger suits my needs quite well. And they have a variety of colors so you ca neven personalize them. And they wear vey nicely, much better than other brands.
As for things like Black Widows, I have used them but grown away from them. I find they are hard to clean and then they wear very quickly. Do they hold your feet solid? Absolutely, but with the issues I mention.