I play every week It is funny you mention putting with a tie on during lunch break. I used to do that a lot at a course near where I used to work. The name of the course was Ted Rhodes named after the black professional golfer.
There was always a group of guys putting for skins. I started to get in the game and the ribbing was pretty tough good natured but no holds barred. As the only white guy in the group I usually bore the brunt of the barbs but as I said it was all in fun. One day one of the regulars starting calling me "Andy". It was "Andy" this and watch out "Andy", finally I asked him why he called me "Andy". His reply was "Because you are too old to be Opie"!