Ordering the clubs to spec is a great way to go about it.
I have two sets of wedges. One, for practice and some rounds. The other set, I reserve for more than just a regular round. Both sets are the same specs, but my specs changed a little last year and were bent again. The cost is almost nothing per clubs in most shops, but I'm even luckier because my pro has the tool and he bends them for me.
I'm able to keep my wedges much longer that way. But then again, I'm not powerful enough to wear them easily.
I may need a new set soon and rotate/retire one.